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My boyfriend wants to break up over too many petty arguments. To me, they are molehills because I truly love him & don't really think twice about them. If he loved me would he work through it?

15.06.2025 15:33

My boyfriend wants to break up over too many petty arguments. To me, they are molehills because I truly love him & don't really think twice about them. If he loved me would he work through it?

If you love him, why do you argue with him over “molehills” that don’t matter to you? Is that how you express love, by fighting over things you just said you don’t even think twice about?

That’s a strange way to show you love someone.

I will answer your question with a question:

My cantankerous beagle is very badly behaved at the dog park and always starts barking at the other dogs. Would pepper spray be an effective method to correct his inappropriate behavior?

I can’t honestly say I blame him for breaking up with you. Constant fights over things you don’t even care about? That seems like problematic behavior to me.